4 Simple Things You can Do Today to Take Control of Your Life

Ever felt like you’re drowning in a sea of demands and expectations?

Like you’re being tugged in every direction by people who want a piece of your time and attention?

I’ve been there, and I know it’s not a fun place to be.

You’re stretched thin, juggling a million things at once, and before you know it, the day has slipped away.

And just when you think you can catch your breath, another day rolls in, ready to start the cycle all over again.


But don’t worry; I’ve got your back.

Here are four simple yet powerful steps you can take today to regain control and start steering your life in the direction you want.

1. Master the Art of Saying Yes or No

One of the best lessons I’ve learned recently is the power of saying “yes” or “no”.

It’s like a magic key that unlocks a clutter-free mind, giving you the space to focus on what truly matters to you.

For instance, if you’re squirrelling away money for a rainy day or to pay off debt, a night out on the town might be a definite “no”.

Sure, you might feel a twinge of guilt for turning down invitations, but remember, it’s not forever.

Let your loved ones know what you’re up to.

You’ll be surprised at how understanding and supportive they can be.

Heck, they might even be inspired to get their own finances in order!

This principle of saying “yes” or “no” isn’t just about money, it applies to all areas of our lives.

Even to things like social media, which seems to be in a constant battle for our attention.

So, take a step back and think about what deserves your “yes” and what should get a “no”.

This simple act can help simplify your life, making you feel less overwhelmed and stressed.

Give it a try, and watch as you start to take control of your life.

2. Discover Your ‘One Thing

Now, let’s play a little game.

Ask yourself this question: “What’s that one thing that would make me incredibly happy and give my life a sense of purpose? “

This question is all about your core values.

When our lives are in sync with these values, we find ourselves happier and more fulfilled. 

Let’s say you value peace, harmony, and positivity.

If you’re stuck in a toxic workplace filled with blame games and gossip, you’re likely to be miserable.

I’ve been there, and trust me, the negative energy can be as persistent as a bad smell that just won’t go away.

That’s why I left my full-time job and started my own business.

So, how do you find your core values?

Here’s a quick exercise.

I’ll list some examples of core values.

As you read through them, see which ones resonate with you.

Tick the ones that describe what you value most.

  • Kindness
  • Honesty
  • Quality
  • Knowledge
  • Creativity
  • Security
  • Gratitude
  • Challenge
  • Responsibility
  • Empathy
  • Autonomy
  • Freedom
  • Success
  • Optimism
  • Passion
  • Love
  • Independence
  • Beauty
  • Family
  • Integrity
  • Health
  • Trust
  • Adventure
  • Contribution

Got your core values?


Now, think about activities that align with them.

If success is a core value, maybe you’re destined to climb the corporate ladder or start your own business.

If love is your thing, spending quality time with your loved ones might be what makes you happiest. 

Remember, it’s all about prioritising activities based on your core values.

By focusing on what truly matters to you, you’re taking a big step towards taking control of your life.

3. Be a Doer, Not Just a Dreamer or a Talker

Ever caught yourself saying,

  • “I’ll start looking for a better-paying job tomorrow,
  • “I’ll start spending more time with my loved ones tomorrow,” or
  • “I’ll start writing my book tomorrow”?

We’ve all been there.

But here’s the thing about tomorrow – it never comes.

I was in the same boat, talking about starting my blog for years before I actually did it.

And when I finally published my first post, I promised myself I’d post once a week.

Spoiler alert: That didn’t happen.

But then I started my 100-Day Publishing Daily Challenge, and everything changed.

It wasn’t just about the challenge anymore.

It was about taking control of my time.

The challenge became my anchor, guiding me to prioritise my day. 

So, take that first step.

Start doing what you’ve been telling yourself you’ll do.

Trust me, it’s easier than you think!

4. Swap a Bad Habit for a Good One

Want to know the secret to breaking a bad habit?

Replace it with a new one. 

Let’s take healthy eating as an example.

If you’re used to munching on 5 packs of chips a day, try swapping out 2 packs for carrot and celery sticks.

Gradually increase your veggie intake.

If you try to go cold turkey, you’ll only end up with worse cravings and a whole lot of misery (been there, done that!).

Focus on one bad habit at a time.

Once you’ve successfully replaced it, move on to the next one.

Incorporating this into a weekly or monthly challenge can be a great strategy.

Not only does it help you live more intentionally, but it also helps you take control of your life.

And while you’re at it, why not spend a little time finding your best habit hacks?

It’s definitely worth the effort!

Bonus: Unleash Your Inner Doodler

Now, I wouldn’t call myself a creative person.

I couldn’t paint or draw to save my life.

But I’ve found a surprising refuge in doodling. 

Yes, doodling!

It’s like a window into my mind, revealing my deepest thoughts on a blank canvas.

It’s where my bad habits, obligations, ideas, goals, and dreams come to life.

And for some reason, I always end up doodling flowers and trees. 

Before I know it, my doodles morph into a mind map.

Each branch leads me to abstract ideas that together form my life vision.

It’s a relaxing and therapeutic exercise that can help you take control of your life.

Final Thoughts: The Power is in Your Hands

Remember, life is a series of choices we make every day.

And the good news?

You already have all the power you need to take control of your life. 

Think about it.

The ability to make a choice every day is a pretty amazing thing.

So, what if today is the day you decide to make better choices and take control of your life? 

Imagine feeling lighter, happier, and more purposeful.

Imagine waking up every day and actually enjoying your life.

Sounds pretty good, doesn’t it?

So, go ahead, take control of your life.

You’ve got this!

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